Priority or options?

Main or sides?

-Dina-

Building hopes. Shattered dreams.

Making do with whatever available. And not expecting too much.

THOSE are the things that I find it hard to do.

And then I got disappointed.
And I break down.

-Dina-

Banyak nak tulis tapi xcukup masa (Banyak jugak masa actually, tapi lagi banyak membuang masa ngehehe)

The ambiguity between 'I understand' and 'I don't really care'.

-Dina-

Soal hati

It is utterly annoying to see the logic and possibilities in all those intended-to-encourage-one-to-be-cautious statements.

Yes, it is extremely crucial to be cautious, to not to be overly excited and happy, and to not to give it all to the things that are not yet certain.
But to seed doubts in the head, seriously, is it really necessary?
What good can this gives, other than leading the mind into paranoia? And making the person being brainwashed a complete bitch? And seeing hopes and dreams crushed?

-Dina-

Ceramah motivasi

It takes intense motivation to start moving and hardly stopping.

Be it weight loss, getting a place at a prestigious uni, surviving uni years with flying colours, job hunting, doing excellently at work, searching for the right life partner, taking care of the family, coping with ups and downs of this harsh life, etc etc.

You've seen how extreme motivation makes the unbearable bearable, making the extremely difficult less difficult.

Fikirkan boleh!

-Dina-

Qs and As

Questions are meant to be answered.
Even when you don't have the answer for the question.
And even when the answer might be wrong.

Because it is just plain wrong to leave the person asking the questions unanswered and unresponded (and then feeling flustered).

Just reply with anything that's thoughtful and pleasant.

The reason for the person to ask questions is not always to get an answer, but just to see whether you actually care to respond (and hence respond because you care).

It doesn't matter if you can't answer promptly due to time constrain. What actually matters is that you just respond to the person asking the question.

And if you ask questions but never intend for an answer, then don't ever ask any question in the first place. Just give statements without question marks.

-Dina-

Sampah masyarakat.. eh silap, sampah sarap

You'll never know when those junks will be useful.
Haaa simpan je la semua mendealah2 ni.
*Mode: berfikir utk spring cleaning the room but just can't be bothered*

-Dina-

That hurts!

I can't avoid thinking too hard and taking everything to heart.
I guess I'm innately born like that.
And because of that, I think I am more considerate towards others with regards to my actions. No?

It is quite frustrating when others fail to consider our (and our loved ones') feelings with regards to their actions when we've been doing our best not to hurt their feelings.

-Dina-

I'm a ticking timebomb

Must learn to control my negative emotions!

-Dina-

I see more fiends than friends

People smirk with raging jealousy when you are bestowed with good fortunes.
But they applaud joyously when bad lucks fall upon you.

THIS is the reality of life ladies and gentlemen.

Trust no one.
Be cautious with everyone.

-Dina-